1. GOOD AFTERNOON
a. Thanks so much to the organizers of this conference. It was so well organized and all of the presenters and participants were set up for success.
b. I want to introduce my daughter, Jessie McCamant Durrett. We named her after an architecture firm, hoping that she would follow in our footsteps and become an architect, but she calls it architorture. She came today because it’s Father’s Day.
2. JESSIE
a. Got her good looks from her Mom, her brains from the cohousing community, and her height from me (I’m glad I was able to help with the important stuff).
3. PRACTICING COMMUNITARIAN
a. I’m not speaking today as a practicing architect who designs Cohousing Communities.
b. I’m speaking as a practicing communitarian, who appreciates community and cohousing immensely. The big moves of course—like making life easier, more convenient, more economical, more sustainable, but also…
4. THE SMALL MOVES
a. The preponderance of small moves, the moves that you see out of the corner of your eye — day in and day out
b. Like someone taking dinner to Meg
c. Or a kid doing his homework at the dining table, mentored by a neighbor
d. Consensus is the big move
e. And it takes healthy dialogue to get consensus
5. THE FUTURE OF COHOUSING HOLDS OUTCOME STUDIES
a. Kids grades (Jessie had straight A’s living in Cohousing and a couple of B+’s since, so there is some data right there)
b. All things that we care about
c. Drugs, teenage pregnancy, and other things that parents really care about are virtually non- existent in cohousing compared with every other living arrangement.
6. RECIPROCITY
a. I believe that in cohousing, every adult is genuinely interested in the success of every child…
b. And that every adult is interested in the success of every adult
c. And by giving, you get back in spades
7. COHOUSING HAS SO MUCH TO OFFER, AND I BELIEVE THAT WILL BE RECOGNIZED IN THE FUTURE
a. When it comes to solving problems
b. Such as Americans watching too much T.V. (6.25 hours/senior, 4.25 hours/person, 7.5 hours/household)
c. Otherwise too much humanity is left on the table, and considerable social ecology erodes.
d. It will be recognized that community can deliver
e. And we have just begun when it comes to sustainability (more on that)
8. THE NEIGHBORHOOD
a. A couple of years ago I was working late with a young architect in our office. He had a band on the side called the poisoned squirrels. When I asked him why the poisoned squirrels, he said, “I watched Mr. Roger’s neighborhood from the age of 5 by myself. I was 12 before I realized that he wasn’t saying good morning poisoned squirrels.” That wouldn’t happen in cohousing.
9. THE FUTURE IS PLAYING
a. The Danish Cohousing Community Skrapanet:
b. Almost 100% of the group is in choral group
c. Almost every adult in the bike club
d. Every woman is in a walking group
e. Almost everyone is in a card club
f. They have a ski trip together every year to Norway
g. And they have theater once per month
10. SOCIAL CAPITAL
a. Successful towns around the world with healthy economics, medical health, and high levels of education
b. It’s more about connections than anything else
c. It’s a question of how many connections and how long they last?
d. These come to be the key indicators of a healthy town or neighborhood
11. MODELING AND PROVING SUSTAINABILITY
a. What is sustainability?
b. Chief Seattle described it as considering 7 generations form now (150 years)
c. Fundamentally does an infant born 150 years from now have the same opportunities as one born today
d. Americans drivers attending seniors: 5 billion miles (Kansas City has taken meals from 14/wk to 1/wk)
e. In Western Nevada County, 60,000 trips in large lumbering buses (carrying only one or two seniors at a time) for 2,000 Seniors (30 trips/year/senior)
f. No Paratransit in cohousing, they have neighbors
g. The way I see it, community is the key antidote to global warming
h. And a few other environmental concerns
i. FSC lumber (instead of clear cutting)
j. PV (instead of bombing people to get their oil)
k. Water use (low instead of high)
l. 35 seniors in California died during heat wave recently; 2/3 had A/C
m. A person only needs 3 things to survive a heat wave
n. Damp cloth
o. Something to fan
p. And someone who gives a damn
q. It’s easy to prove that no one would die of heat stroke in cohousing
12. I USED TO MAINTAIN THAT
a. Cohousing boiled down to:
b. Quality of life
c. Living lighter on the planet
d. But they are merging
e. A house bathed in light like our own—never having to flip a switch during the day, adds to quality of life
f. Natural Ventilation
g. $20/month heating, minus $83 in electric for the year
h. Cheap energy gives people more time to play
13. ME / WE
a. Anyone know the shortest poem in the English language? Me/We
b. Harvard 1978, Mohammed Ali wrote this poem on the spot at the commencement speech
c. Martin Luther King said “I can never reach my potential unless you do as well”
d. Mayor of Cucuron “I won’t help you unless you can show how it serves everyone—as well”
e. In Cohousing you get, “I can’t fully serve me unless I serve we & me”
14. COHOUSING IS READY TO TAKE OFF
a. What will it take to get to the tipping point?
b. When we have made enough, and when they obviously work
c. When enough of your friends believe that their life will be better and that they can more easily live their values in Cohousing
d. Like cars; like computers; once enough people see their value, once it was obvious, then everyone had to have one
e. Cars and computers are engineered into reliability. Lessons learned has got to be our method.
15. WHEN DOES COHOUSING OBVIOUSLY WORK?
a. Meal agreements…Cohousing in Austria: Liberhaben put into place that all new residents have to cook (1/4 currently don’t cook)
b. Like a nomadic Bedouin tribe moving across the sands of Asia minor, they gather at the end of the day. This is how community and commitment is sustained…Oh did I say commitment…I did. I know that as a culture, we want good without commitment.
c. In Emeryville, 3 elders who weren’t afraid to say you cook this day if you didn’t sign up on time.
d. Maintenance. Equitable. No one moves into Cohousing to take advantage of the neighbors, but it happens when people don’t pull their weight.
e. One of the biggest fears that people have about moving into cohousing is the ‘tragedy of the commons’, the attitude that someone else will do it, and that someone else will be me. Even if it’s just a minimum commitment of 20/hours per week of outside maintenance, when you know that someone will do 50—make the commitment.
f. Skraplanet – would not miss a work day. That’s when cohousing works, and it has worked fantastically there for 40 years.
16. AFFORDABILITY
a. Cohousers bring an attitude to the table that we have to get this affordable—and they manage to do so, and they inspire affordable housing projects to be more affordable
b. In the context of sustainability/energy efficiency
c. Aesthetics: “Wow, this is affordable?”
d. Cost effectiveness comes out of cohousing over and over again
e. Self-management (the right wing will have a legitimate complaint if we can’t make affordable housing affordable to manage as well. Because we have the people there. We don’t have to manage, they can manage themselves, we have shown that over and over.
f. Affordable housing across the land people are boxed up, warehoused really, and with 6-7 hours of t.v. per day, there is too much humanity left on the table. They could be on someone’s front porch talking about the issues of the day.
17. LEGACY
a. Casa Valencia: Largely self managed affordable housing, and a functional community after post-occupancy workshops
b. Petaluma Ave. all rental, cohousing inspired
c. Depot Commons all single mothers on welfare and in school, cohousing inspired
d. Home Safe (mothers and children coming out of abusive households)
18. PROCESS
a. Every time we work with another client type (church, university, etc.) we realize that this is what cohousing has to offer—good group process
b. Cohousers reach out to accomplish healthy process
c. 1+1=3 (you have an idea, I have an idea and third (ours) is better)
d. To go quickly, go alone. To go far, go together.
19. MEETINGS
a. Cohousing gets criticized for meetings
b. But the beginning of change is to convene a gathering
c. The change agent is the convener of a gathering.
d. Tools for democracy
e. Ability to dialogue
f. Place to dialogue
20. IMPROVE MEETINGS
a. Focus on gifts that people bring to the table
b. Everyone has something to contribute
c. And as a culture we have to get comfortable with disagreement. We do a sort of Italian inspired childcare that focuses on the child’s curiosity. When disagreements (what are they curious about? For example) people dialogue. Too often in America when people disagree, they can’t dialogue. It’s a sort of emotional maturity that we can disagree and still dialogue, and move forward.
21. CITY FLOAT AT 4TH OF JULY WITH COHOUSING GROUP
a. M.C. stated that Nevada City Cohousing is the town’s experiment- I thought not
b. Then, months later, sitting in a common meeting, I thought that he’s dead right
c. The central question that makes us different than all of the villages for millions of years is, “Can we be with each other as equals?”
22. THE EXPERIMENT
a. THE #1 reason that we have a large brain is because we were primates who communicated
b. But much of our brain goes under-utilized
c. We can even get better
23. RECENTLY
a. A friend asked me, “Chuck, could you ever move out of cohousing?”
b. I said no…I am too interested in the experiment. The experiment is, “Can people sit in the room and be as equals and manage the farm by consensus?”
24. COHOUSING AS AN EXAMPLE
a. American Indians, typical HUD scenario. On one-acre lots, house equal distant across the landscape. Argue they had better community when they lived in trailer courts. Ironic that a “gringo” was talking to American Indians about how to build community.
b. Design excellence awards community oriented architecture.
c. City council. Consensus
d. Too often 3:2 with acrimony
e. They don’t know where to begin
f. I urge those of you who live in cohousing to go to your city council meetings.
25. THE FUTURE: SPECIAL NEEDS HOUSING MODELED BY COHOUSING
a. Autism (Chicago) 2 developments of 20 units each.
b. One thing I’ve learned from designing Cohousing: We’re all special
c. Orange County (2) projects: I.Q. 40-70, I.Q. 70-90
d. 21-35 year old “kids” who need to move away from home and move to a community
e. Too much humanity left on the table
f. We need outcome studies
26. TO GET FOLKS WITH VISIBLE DISABILITIES
a. Out of institutions
b. Focus on gifts, what people can do: one kids shops, one knows the bus schedule.
27. COMMUNITY BRINGS
a. Identity – I am someone
b. Belonging – I belong somewhere
c. Accountability – People only feel accountable to what they helped create or those close to your heart created.
d. These are basic
28. SUPPORT COHOUSING U.S.
a. If you have a say you will support. You have a say, so support cohousing US
29. CONCLUSION
a. What’s in the book
b. A webpage is a sound bite
c. Ann Zebaldo mentioned that with early groups, every person read the book and they moved forward successfully
d. More than a sound bite or even a webpage
e. In latter projects, they come to the meetings woefully underprepared. They hadn’t read the book and the projects didn’t move forward
f. Read the book
g. Thanks very much